There's always a "first in the family" who...

Gets Divorced

Goes to Therapy

Sets boundaries

Parents differently

Is openly LGBTQ+

Lives somewhere else

Chooses not to get married

Chooses not to have children

Breaks generational trauma cycle

Makes different financial decisions

Goes to college (or doesn't go to college)

Practices a different (or no) religion

And if that person is YOU, it's OK.