There's always a "first in the family" who...
Gets Divorced
Goes to Therapy
Sets boundaries
Parents differently
Is openly LGBTQ+
Lives somewhere else
Chooses not to get married
Chooses not to have children
Breaks generational trauma cycle
Makes different financial decisions
Goes to college (or doesn't go to college)
Practices a different (or no) religion
And if that person is YOU, it's OK.