Selfishness in relationships actually looks like:

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- Continuing on with a partner you know is more committed than you when you know you'll never feel the same as them.

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- Using your past as an excuse to behave poorly or act out.

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- Ignoring requests to fight more fairly, despite knowing it would improve the health of the relationship.

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- Punishing your partner by withholding sex or intimacy.

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- Disregarding a partners need for physical space and pushing physical or emotional intimacy.

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- Pushing your partner to hit relationship 'milestones' i.e., engagement for the sake of societal or familial apprearances.

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- Putting in unequal effort in spite of knowing it makes your partner feel uncomfortable.

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- Doing anything you'd agreed to stop doing within the boundaries of your shared agreements.

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Now, Go Quiet and Start Building Yourself.